I'm in the midst of reading "the single issue," by Al Hsu and must say I'm finding it to be a very empowering read.  Almost every girl I chat to at HTB seems to be talking about 'wanting a boyfriend', 'wanting to get married', 'who's it going to be', 'why God won't send their husband to them right now' etc etc etc and I would be telling a terrible fib, if I were to say that none of these thoughts had ever crossed my mind.  However, I really would encourage anyone who's had any of these thoughts to take a look at 'the single issue'. 
I know I'm not known for being particularly loud or opinionated, but I almost want to crash the stage at HTB on a Sunday night and tell all the single girls that if you're lonely now, getting married isn't going to change that, there are plenty of very lonely married people who are stuck with that person for the rest of their lives!