I recently discovered this awesome blog site 
http://artofmanliness.com/2008/01/16/ stop-hanging-out-with-women-and-start- dating-them/

it matches fantastic vintage pics with great entertaining advice for guys on how to improve on their gentlemanly skills 
Particularly good articles for Christian guys who by and large tend to be shy and retiring sorts ... ... so put more GGggrrrRR and gentlemanly courting skills back inta you boys!

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The Problem with the Hook-Up CultureOn college campuses hooking-up has replaced dating. Guys seldom ask girls on out real dates: outings they have planned ahead of time and which involve just the two of them. And they even less frequently ask that girl to be their girlfriend and enter into monogamous relationships. Instead women and men hook up at bars, Greek houses, and parties. They have their way with each other and then hope never to have a run-in around campus. College is seen as the time to sow one’s wild oats before settling down at some yet to be determined, but definitively far off time.While many (maybe most?) men see all this as harmless fun, the reality is that there are negative consequences to these hit and run sexual encounters. In truth, “casual sex” is an oxymoron; there is no such thing.